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Put simply, journaling is a way of recording your thoughts and emotions in writing. It’s something I’ve often turned to when I’m feeling חרדה, as a way of thinking through issues and understanding them better. It’s also really cathartic to write things down - it’s like offloading worries from your head on to the page in front of you. Writing down your worries can be a healthy way for anyone to help relieve stress, and all you need is a pen and paper.

Rebecca Vivash, a counsellor and member of the British Association for Counsellors and Psychotherapists (BACP) says some people like to keep a traditional journal - like a diary - with a daily reflection or affirmation, though this does not need to be a structured practice.

She says: "The calm and comfort that accompanies putting your thoughts and feelings down on paper, together with the insight that comes from identifying and understanding your emotional triggers, is a real recipe for improved mental health."

Benefits of journaling

From work and money concerns to health worries, it's normal to feel overwhelmed sometimes. They can take a real toll on your mental health, leaving you anxious, לחץ and feeling low.

One of the key benefits of journaling on your mental health is that it helps with emotional regulation. Keeping a written journal can help to identify patterns in your feelings and behaviours, which in turn allows you to recognise whether there are specific triggers that affect your mood.

"These can be explored either in therapy or through your own reflections, as you consider alternative ways to control how these triggers affect you," Vivash says.

Journaling is also about externalising worries and fears. Your journal can be an outlet for anxiety where you can 'worry dump' and get all your thoughts and emotions down on paper.

Vivash explains that writing your worries down can be cathartic, as the simple act of putting pen to paper helps to organise your thoughts.

"It can also help to revisit your writings the next day," she adds. "Often a new morning with a fresh perspective can reduce the intensity of your חרדה."

Positive journaling

ה journal doesn’t have to be all about negative emotions. Positive psychology - placing emphasis on the good stuff - can help to shift our mindset to a more positive one. And the 'little wins' we experience don’t have to be major events or milestones. It can be as small as a text from a loved one, or seeing the sun come out.

It's easy to dismiss positive psychology as happy talk but, in general, we have a tendency to focus on our difficult experiences by default.

"Actively bringing the positives to the forefront of our mind and into a journal can really help to improve mood," Vivash says. "It can also help us to feel that we have some semblance of control over our lives."

Yuko Nippoda, psychotherapist and spokesperson from the UK Council for Psychotherapy, adds that journaling can help you better understand yourself.

"It is a very good way to get to know yourself, to take control of yourself and create your own world," she says. "Writing journals is a productive part of your personal development."

How to start journaling

Try 'free writing'

Set aside up to ten minutes each day, when you are usually less busy. It can help to channel your 'stream of consciousness' - writing down whatever comes into your head.

Vivash often recommends 'free writing' - the act of putting pen to paper, or finger to keyboard.

Pick a topic

You could also try picking a topic each day. This could be a broad subject such as your relationship, friendships or work, depending on what is on your mind.

Think positive

Specifically trying to 'be positive' can feel quite trite, especially if you are feeling חרדה. That being said, it can help to write down three things that you are grateful for at the end of each day.

Remember it is only for you

When you start to write a journal, you may feel self-conscious or embarrassed. If this happens, it is useful to write about these feelings.

Keep the journals safe

Keep your journals somewhere private but accessible as it can be useful to re-read, to reflect on how you coped with past issues and what helped get you through.